Dating has a way of healing a broken trust if given the chance. This is because if there is no trust in any kind of relationship, then there is no relationship. If trust has been broken it takes a long time to repair and mend, that is, if you can rebuild it. Nevertheless, hearts have been broken before by lack of trust and mended with time. This does not mean that you can’t. There are very specific ways on which the rebuilding is done in your dating instances, depending on the main reasons that led to the straining of the relationship.
If your mind is set at rectifying the situation, you must accept the blame flat out. There is no reason for offering some lame excuses in trying to defend, explain or argue that it does not really mean much. Your admission of the fact that you are the one who did mess the situation up is so crucial. You can say for instance you cheated on the ex if that’s what happened. If you have been wronged by a person, you have the tinge to make sure that he/she knows that what he/she did is wrong. Otherwise, just thinking what happened as not being a huge problem will make you ignore it and might not even understand it to the fullest. This is very important in the dating relationship as it will clarify your sincerity and responsibility in returning the relationship to what it were at the beginning.
You cannot ignore this as it has the necessary power to begin the rebuilding of the lost trust. It has a deeper and different excuse as well as obfuscation the people have once a major problem sets in. The dating relationship would not be strained further if you are more than sincere that you want to have the relationship back. You recall the things you did together and the good times you shared. Somehow, deep down within you, a strong urge to make the relationship a success, drives you into making trust flow back into the relationship.
You owe yourself this and you can’t run from it. Dating the ex or the person you had broken with will apparently be on the track towards returning you back to the line of the dating you enjoyed before the rude shake up. You can’t ignore the fact that without the value of trust things will be thick and impossible in the relationship. If you have a sincere motivation towards complete healing, then you can be sure of success.
Something that you cannot avoid doing is the acknowledgment that you did bring your ex much pain. You must lay out the pain as it happened and laying the facts on the table will give you enough strength to forge ahead with the relationship. It’s all about owning up and making the ex know your level of sincerity as you happen to have him/her in your mind. This should happen if you were the cause of all your relationship problems.