There are people whom dating is like attracting misery. They seem to have everything within their stride and only sell their dating game for a very small price that is mostly ingrained in their character. You can’t pity them nor have mercy on them. The things that are happening to them are as a result of their own mistakes. A person who has created a formula for his own fall no one can help him, the best you can do is leaving them alone.
Dating a person whose personal hygiene sucks is a tall order. It means that even after you have cemented your relationship and you are more of a couple, you will be the center of grooming in the house. It is not a bad thing; it is what relationships are made of. The worse thing is that the partner does not even take one initiative to change and improve his sorry nature. It is the last of his worries. The dating might not be affected and somehow you decide to try out whether it will work.
You come together and try to live on one place. As you share the basic amenities and a life that you can afford and initially all is heavenly. The romantic nature of your relationship and your dating instances are just everything that you have always wanted. You have no choice and succumb to the sweetness of his love and the wholesomeness of his intimacy. The kind of sexual relationship you are having is just the bomb and to say the least, you have never seen anything like it. You have the world at your finger tips, brought about by the love and endearing nature of the dating relationship.
You feel emotional tendons of intimacy tickling you to ecstatic proportions of endearment. You forget all the things that could make your relationship start experiencing its worst nature and hit the rocks. Passion and your wholesome attitude towards your partner is the desire of the marriage faculty that makes you have a fruitful one with your partner. Such commitment is the endowment and love of God. The problem is that you will somehow come to your senses if the partner is one of those men whose life since their childhood is not made of serving but being served.
You cannot blame them; it is a selfish kind of status quo, where your attachment is mostly as a result of your service. The effect is that everything they do in the commitment affected their lives they have. The problem is when they forgot completely to show your fair share of intimacy. Considering what you have given out, you are left with no option but calling it a day. The fact is that in a relationship, it is two way traffic, you come up with an element of love into it while the other partner brings another element of commitment in the relationship and together they react to form something big and serious.